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Everything I Ever Needed to Know, I Learned from my Mom

I grew up in a very strict religion.  One of the beliefs were, we didn’t celebrate holidays.  It always made me sad I couldn’t make a card for my mom on Mother’s Day. I made her cards on other days, but on Mother’s Day, it still felt like I should be giving my mom a card.

Fast forward to today- twenty five years later, and we are not in that religion anymore.  And as life would have it, I am not a card person.  I hate trying to find that ‘perfect’ card.  I either find nothing I like, or I find too many and then I can’t make up my mind.  I usually end up sending e-cards, because at least I can do that on the computer, when I don’t have two active little boys underfoot, trying to take all the cards out of the rack, while I search for that ‘one.’ 

That does not mean that I don’t appreciate what my mom has done for me, over the course of my 30+ years.  My mom will not have a ‘perfect’ card in a ‘perfect’ pink envelope this year, but I know she reads my blog.  So Mom- like it or not, whether you knew it or not, I did manage to learn a lot from you. I hope you enjoy this list Mom, it is for you.

  • If you can’t say something nice, don’t say anything at all
  • Life isn’t fair
  • Home cooked meals can solve most any problems- at least while you are eating
  • If you keep trying something long enough, you will eventually learn to like it (for me it was the spaghetti you always made me eat)
  • Crying over someone else’s problems is a sure way to stop crying about yours
  • It is okay to order food the way you want it in a restaurant
  • Kids don’t need a lot of sugar
  • Take your vitamins every day
  • If you are bored, there is always something that can be cleaned
  • If you are bored, there is always a book you can read
  • Later on in life, what will help you remember your childhood, is the pictures (thanks for always keeping such great ones for us!)
  • When you believe in yourself, there are no limits to what you can accomplish
  • There are some people in your life who will always be there for you
  • Some things are worth spending money on
  • Life doesn’t always turn out as you hoped, but you never give up
  • Friends can help you get through anything
  • If you can’t go on another day, then don’t- just get through the next hour, and then the next hour after that
  • No matter how hard and bad life may be, there is always something or someone worth hanging on for
  • No one is perfect
  • If you aren’t true to yourself, you will never have real happiness
  • Disneyland really is the happiest place on earth
  • You can find every solution to life in a movie- or at least watch other people going through the same thing you are
  • Seeking help for your problems may be painful, but not seeking help is more painful to you, and everyone else who loves you
  • No matter how old I get, when I am sick, I just want my mommy
  • If you aren’t happy, do something today to change it. 
  • Your children will know if you are truly happy, or faking it
  • Sleep is good
  • Naps are even better
  • You will never love anyone like you love your children
  • You won’t understand this until you have children
  • You will know how much your own mother loves you, when you have your own children

It took me thirty one years to learn these last three.  Now they hold for me, the key to the present and the future.  

Thank you for all the life lessons, Mom, and Happy Mother’s Day.  I love you.

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New Year’s Eve

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Ever since having kids, I have not been out on New Year’s Eve.  In fact, I was doing well if I could even stay up until midnight, to ring in the new year at home. 

My kids are growing up, so I guess I get to go out again for New Year’s, and I am really excited about it.  I’m going with my sister, brother, and their spouses, and some of their friends.  Joe is going to have a boy’s night in, with Ryan and Cole.  I told them tonight I was going to go out, and they were going to have a party with Dad- I told them they could have some hot chocolate, and they just thought that was the best thing ever.  🙂 It is cute how sweet and innocent they still are. 

We are going to have dinner at a delicious restaurant in Cherry Creek that my sister used to work at, and her best friend is the manager there now.  Then we are going to go to a nice drinking place (bar) and say good-bye to 2008.

I don’t usually make New Year’s Resolutions, but I do get in mind some goals I would like to accomplish for the upcoming year.  The big one, is to finally get all our junk worldly possessions moved to the new house, and get our place rented, so we can finally finish up with all this house stuff. 

I also wanted to lose some weight, but due to the stress of trying to move all our worldly possessions to the new house, I lost some. That is always nice, but I do want to start a regular schedule of doing some exercise a few times a week. 

One other big goal is to not let the house fill up with so much junk- really.  I don’t know how it gets so accumulated, but it is really freeing to throw away and donate so much of the stuff that has piled up; stuff we never use.  Moving is good for a few things- one of which is getting your life de-cluttered  🙂 

I’d love to hear any other resolutions or goals everyone has- I might even be able to add a new one to my list.

Whatever you are doing on New Year’s Eve, be safe and enjoy.

Happy New Year!

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No Rest for the Weary

With Christmas over, that nagging feeling hits me every year.  The feeling that I have forgotten something- that something always being Ryan’s birthday.  He was born the first week of January, and with the holidays, I always fall behind on his party.

Back in June, I thought of this, and planned.  In years past, I have never seemed to plan his birthday far ahead enough in advance, and then all the fun places are booked.    My ‘baby’ is turning five this year, and he has been excited forever for his birthday.  I actually booked the venue in June, and that was too early to do all the other planning, so I have put it off-again.  There is always so much going on with the holidays, it just naturally falls to the back burner. 

So this week we will be trying to move, work, and finish the preparations for Ryan’s big day, which is next Sunday.  Fortunately, I have all the party favors, and just have to find some time to assemble them.  I would love to make his cake, and some of the other food, but I’m not crazy. There is just no way I can manage that with everything else going on.

If my blog posts taper off, you know I am up to my neck in boxes, and party favors.  🙂  I hope everyone had a great Christmas, and here are some pictures from ours:

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Wanted For Christmas: Socks With No Holes- A Christmas Miracle

When my sister, Mara, sent out an e-mail in November to her family and friends, pleading with them for any help they could provide for her 26 impoverished second grade students so they could each have one Christmas present, I know she never expected a miracle for these kids.  After I read her e-mail and the sad circumstances these kids were in, I was in tears. I immediately called her and asked if I could post part of her e-mail and write a post, putting the call out to my readers who could help. 

I had lots of inquiries and questions, and many people who said they would be able to send my sister a care package or a gift-card.  We were overwhelmed at the generosity and response.   Combined with the other donations from family, friends, and strangers, we went shopping for the kids last week, and Mara was so excited.  The donations had far exceeded her expectations, and she knew all her kids would have several necessary items, as well as a few small gifts. 

Then on Friday, the miracles started showing up in her classroom. One of the miracles was five of our brave Air Force Officers from Buckley Air Force Base.  Sergeant Alex, read the first post I wrote about these kids, and called Mara at the school. Unfortunately, it was a bad message and the only thing she was able to catch from Sgt. Alex’s message was his name, he was from Buckley, and he had read about this on A Mama’s Blog.  Mara asked me to put a call out to him to have her call him back.  I wrote that post, and Sgt. Alex took the time again, to call Mara back.

I so wish I had been able to come to Mara’s class and bring the boys, but I had to work.  So I am going to post Mara’s account of the day (with pictures), that includes not only the generous gifts Sgt. Alex’s unit brought, but of all the gifts that everyone was able to give. 

Reading Mara’s account of the donations that Sgt. Alex’s unit and members of his unit’s family brought to these kids-well, words can’t describe it.  Together, all these gifts and donations amounted to a true Christmas miracle for these kids who had nothing, but now feel like they are the richest kids in the world, all because people showed they cared.   That is the true spirit of Christmas, and it has been the highlight for me this Christmas. 

To all my readers and everyone who was able to help, all I can say is THANK YOU!  I know Mara and the kids thank you too.  Now get a tissue ready, because you will need it after reading about the generousity so many showed, to help 26 kids have a Christmas. 

An Amazing Day (by Teachingmommy-Mara)

I barely have the words to describe what it was like in my classroom on Friday. I’ll do my best because I know there are a lot of people who worked to make it happen and want to know how it went:

Imagine 26 kids excited for the last day of school. Their teacher has told them a special surprise is coming, but they don’t know what it is. They are thinking about how it’s going to be 2 weeks off of school and that can be scary because home life isn’t the most stable. Sometimes it’s great, but parents have been talking lately about how there isn’t any money for Xmas presents and they might lose their house like their friend did and have to move. They are quietly doing their work at their desks when they hear a noise and look up:

5 uniformed Air Force men are walking into the classroom! Mrs. Corzine is smiling at them and goes over to introduce herself and shakes all their hands. They are dragging about 10 huge garbage bags with them! What is this???? Mrs. Corzine tells them to put their work away and says that these nice men are from the Air Force and are our new friends. They care about us so much that they’ve put together Christmas Presents for every child in this room! In the bag are Christmas Presents!

The kids look at each other with huge eyes and squeal!! They can’t believe it: they try to sit quietly as the men pass out 2 wrapped gifts per child, but this is too much. They’ve never had gifts like this before. They were all prepared to not have anything for Christmas this year because Mom says there isn’t any money for things like that! They start laughing and jumping up and down while the presents are being passed out. Mrs. Corzine looks shocked at the amount of gifts and she has tears in her eyes. One of the girls asks her why she’s crying and Mrs. Corzine can’t even answer her…this is amazing!

Finally everyone in the room has their 2 presents…but wait! They’re not done yet! They bring the bags up to the front of the room and start taking out MORE presents to give to Mrs. Corzine for the whole class. Mrs. Corzine is smiling and crying at the same time and telling them it’s way too much, but the men are shaking their heads and telling her how happy they are to do this for the kids. They have piled gifts on the front table and are explaining to Mrs. Corzine what is in each of them: soccer balls, basketballs, footballs, jump ropes, sidewalk chalk, chapter books…enough to share with the entire 2nd grade!! Oh…an a box of homemade cookies that one of the officers’ wife had stayed up late to make.

The kids all say “Thank you!” and then start to rip into their presents. It’s the best scene you could ever imagine. They are laughing and excited and talking to the officers and their friends and saying things like, “I needed new socks!” and “Now my feet won’t be cold!” and “Legos!!! Now I don’t have to share with my brother!” and “Oh…jewelry! I’ve always wanted a necklace!” The officers and Mrs. Corzine are just standing by and watching them tear into their gifts…probably the best they’ve ever gotten (or will get). The joy in their eyes is unmistakable. It is pure happiness. They are shocked at the amount of goodies they’ve received:

Sweaters/Jackets for each kid (nice ones too…Nike, Hannah Montana, High School Musical, etc.)
Legos for the boys
Jewelry packets for the girls (each with necklace, earrings, bracelets)
Hair things for the girls
Hello Kitty! Stuff for the girls
Hats and Mittens and Scarves
Socks

They are modeling their new outfits and trying on their hats. A few pictures of them doing this are below. They have never been so excited in their lives. Imagine you were 8 years old and you knew you weren’t going to have much of a Christmas this year. You had resigned yourself to that and you tried to convince yourself it didn’t matter…then this happens!!

Mrs. Corzinestarts passing out the other gifts for the kids to open. The boys go nuts at all the balls…now they have something to play with on the playground! They start squealing and yelling and jumping up and down all over again.

The principal comes in to say hello and her jaw drops when she sees how much stuff the kids have gotten. She shakes each officer’s hand and thanks them…she says later that there aren’t any words to describe how amazing this is. Just look at the kids’ shining eyes…I know, Mrs. Corzine replies and tries to smile back without breaking into tears in front of the kids.

The officers eventually leave but first they tell Mrs. Corzine what a pleasure this was and how 50 families were involved and they’d love to come back on a regular basis to read with the kids! They say they’ll be in touch and hug Mrs. Corzine and tell her “Merry Christmas”…and they smile and go back to the base where Mrs. Corzine hopes they’ll spread the news at how Christmas Miracles are REAL and they made something happen for 26 kids that they will never forget…these kids are experiencing not just the new toys and clothes but the feeling that they are important and they matter.

But wait…the day isn’t over yet!! After lunch, a special Christmas helper rolls in another cart filled with more presents! A elementary school in Cherry Creek (for those of you who don’t know…the wealthy part of town) adopted the kids and made school supply boxes for each of them to have at home! They each got all the markers, pencils, crayons, rulers, etc. they’ll ever need to do their homework! As the Christmas helper (thanks Christina…) passes them out, there is more cheering and comments like, “Now I can do my homework!” and “I’ve always wanted my own markers!”

Then the kids notice something…more presents on the floor: the gift bags that the WalMart gift cards were able to buy! Their eyes pop open and you can see their tiny brains about ready to explode: this is almost too much!!! One girl says, “Mrs. Corzine…there’s more?????” as Mrs. Corzine explains that people from all over the country sent them some gifts because they care about them and really want them to have a nice Christmas. Also because they really want the kids to know that they are important and the best way to pay these people back is to do well in school. Who’s going to do well in school to say “thank you?” All the kids shoot up their hands and their grins couldn’t be any wider.

As they open their gift bags (standing on their chairs throwing the paper around…), Mrs. Corzine watches their faces closely. This will be a day these kids remember for the rest of their lives. It’s not so much the new chapter books each kid got (we had enough donations for each child to have 2: plus we added to our classroom library and we gave extras to the school library and we also gave a bunch to the principal to pass out to kids who’ve earned a special prize), or the new basketballs, or the socks or the hats and Hannah Montana dolls (one girl saw her doll and immediately gave it a hug)…it’s the fact that for this one day these kids felt RICH. They felt like they mattered in the world. They are important. You could see their self-esteem just shoot up as they realized how much other people cared about them.

One girl goes up to Mrs. Corzine and gives her a bug hug and says “Mrs. Corzine…this is amazing! All this from people we don’t even know??? They must really like us and want us to read better!” Mrs. Corzine laughs and says she’s right.

Finally, the gifts are over and it’s recess time. Not a single 2nd grader is playing on the swings or the one slide we have. Every single one is on the blacktop playing with a new soccer ball or jump rope or kickball. It’s shocking…we’ve never seen them do this before! They are all laughing and having a great time.

This is the true meaning of Christmas. For all of you who donated, to Sgt. Alex and his unit, to those of you who sent WalMart cards, your child’s old books, to those of you who drove all the way up to Commerce City to drop items off so I wouldn’t have to, to you who bought new books online and had them mailed, sent blankets and to Emily who had her 1st grade class make school supply boxes (with personalized notes from the 1st graders…my kids loved that!)…

Thank you isn’t enough. I hope some of the pictures tell the story better than I can because you truly made a Christmas Miracle happen for these kids. It was a day I know I’ll never forget…it was truly one of the best days of my life because I saw dejected and hopeless kids turn into kids full of joy and happiness. Even if for one day…

Thank you all and Merry Christmas! The world today is a bit better because of you!

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Merry Christmas

To all my wonderful readers, Merry Christmas, and all the best to you and your families for 2009.

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