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End of Second-Hand Children’s Clothing & Toys?

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UPDATE- JANUARY 9, 2009

On January 8th, the U.S. Consumer Product Safety clarified this law in a press release, and stated: “Sellers of used children’s products, such as thrift stores and consignment stores, are not required to certify that those products meet the new lead limits, phthalates standard or new toy standards.”

While this is good news for the second-hand shops, I still hope they clarify the position for home-made toys.  Thanks to Deb and AK who commented on this post and left the link to the revised information.  I would like to point out that I wrote this post on January 6, two days before the clarification was released.

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I buy most of Ryan and Cole’s clothes second-hand.  In the town I live in, there are a few really nice second-hand stores, as well as a semi-annual kids consignment clothing sale from Just Between Friends.  Most of my friends buy their children’s clothes second-hand as well. 

It makes great financial sense for several reasons.  When you factor in how much new clothes cost, and the fact that kids grow out of these clothes so fast, it doesn’t seem like you really get your money out of the clothes. If you are the parent of a boy, you know how fast they can wear holes through their pants. I remember buying Ryan a new pair of fleece pants last winter.  I think I paid $20 for them, and he had a hole in them the second time he wore them. 

I can usually go to the Just Between Friends Sale twice a year, and buy all the clothes the boys need, including pajamas, shoes, coats, and even find high quality toys too.  I spend less than if  I bought them just a few outfits brand new from some of the popular kids stores. However, it could be come illegal on February 10th, for second-hand children’s clothing and toys to be sold. 

A new federal law will go into effect on this date, the Consumer Product Safety Improvement Act. It requires all products sold for children, including clothing, to be tested and certified as lead-free.  In theory this sounds like a great law- after all, we don’t want our kids exposed to lead, but in reality it is not practical for second-hand clothing and toys to be tested.     

Many business owners who sell second-hand children’s clothes, and charitable organizations such as The Salvation Army, are anticipating having to throw thousands and thousands of clothing items away.  Some businesses will have to close.  Parents who rely on stores to provide affordable clothing, would have to cut money elsewhere from their budgets.  None of the second-hand items will have the lead free certification, so selling them will be illegal. 

Handmade and second-hand toys, will also become illegal to sell, unless the creators can pay up to $4,000 per item to have each toy tested.  Obviously small business owners can not afford to pay this for every second-hand item they carry. 

I am all for making sure our children’s clothing and toys are lead free.  But this law seems to go too far for second-hand items, and has the potential to harm families, business owners, and the economy overall. I don’t want to see the wonderful second-hand stores in my town close.  They provide a very valuable service to the families in my community. 

Many shop owners are contacting their Congress representatives hoping to have the law amended to allow the sale of certain types of clothing and toys. I hope an amendment passes, otherwise, saving money on children’s clothes and toys, will be a thing of the past.

You can contact your Congress representatives to voice your opinion, and you can check out the Homemade Toy Alliance  for more information and petitions you can sign. 

I would love to hear your opinions on this issue.  Are you worried about lead in children’s second-hand clothing and toys, or do you think this law goes to far in banning these items?

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Happy Birthday Ryan

Dear Ryan,

I never thought this day would come- after all, weren’t you just born?  Didn’t your head just fit into the palm of my hand?  Couldn’t I just hold your entire body in the crook of my arm? Wasn’t I just holding my brand new baby, thinking you would always be this little? 

Five years could not have passed this quickly, but it has, and here we are today and you are five.  My life changed for the better the moment I found out I was pregnant with you. A moment before, it was just me- a moment after, I was somebody’s mother- your mother.  I realized from that moment on, it would never be just me again, and I would always have you.

As you have grown and changed from a newborn, to an infant, to a baby, to a toddler, to a preschooler, and now a little boy, I have always loved each stage you have been.  I always wish you would never outgrow the age you are in, but I know that isn’t possible, and then I find myself loving the new stage you are in.  As you grow older, I am finding out more and more about you- your personality, your likes, your dislikes, and it is a wonderful journey everyday.

You are such a good helper.  You love helping me get dinner ready, and you love helping Dad with any project he is working on.  You like to take our orders for dinner at grandma’s house.  Even though you don’t like to, you always put your toys away when I ask, and I can tell you are learning  responsibility.

You love dessert. Ice cream is your favorite right now- chocolate to be exact.  You are your mommy’s son.  🙂 

You love making waffles with Dad on Saturday’s, and you enjoy cooking with me and your grandmas’. 

Your favorite thing in life right now is your toys- your Mack cement truck Santa brought you for Christmas.  You love playing trucks, trains, cars, Lincoln Logs, and construction. 

You enjoy your preschool so much, with your friends and your teachers. 

Perhaps the most rewarding aspect, is how you love Cole.  You realize now that he is smaller than you, and is just trying to keep up with you.  You are so nice to him, even when he grabs your toys out of your hand and you always ask him so nice to give them back to you.  You like showing him things that you have discovered and he just glows when his big brother pays attention to him.  You two really are the best of friends.

Five years ago when you born, I had a new baby.  I had no idea how to be a mother. I only knew the second I saw you, I was in love.  But you taught me over the years what you needed.  When you were a baby, your cries told me.  When you were a toddler, your screams of frustration told me, and now as you turn five, you can talk and communicate to me what you need.  We have learned a lot from each other these last five years Ryan, and I love you so very, very, much. 

When you were born, I couldn’t have imagined I would love you more today, but I do- I love you more every day.  I am so grateful I am your mother, and I am so grateful to have you as my son.  As the next five years pass, (I hope they don’t pass as quickly, but I have a feeling they will) I can’t wait to find out even more about you.  I hope you know how much joy and love you have brought to our family and my goal for you (and for Cole) is to make sure you always know how much we love you, and to make sure you feel loved, happy, and secure- always.

I love you, sweetie from the bottom of my heart.  Happy Fifth Birthday.

Mommy

Here are some pictures from your birthday party on Sunday at the Children’s Museum in Denver.

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Moving Update and Good-Bye to Baby Items

Moving has been going pretty well.  We have been trying to move one room at a time, and then unpack it, as we get to the new house.  With the holidays, and Ryan’s birthday this weekend, we just haven’t had an entire weekend or block of time to devote to it.  So next weekend, should hopefully be our final weekend moving.

We have moved all the odds and ends stuff from the living room, bedrooms, and garage.  We will have to move the furniture we are still using, the kitchen, and the office,  and our clothes. One nice surprise is we don’t seem to have nearly the amount of junk that I thought we would have.  I think we were so tight on space over the years, we just didn’t keep a lot of that stuff. 

On Saturday I had to decide on all the baby gear, and I realized there was not really a reason to move and keep so much of the baby items I have.  It was kind of a defining moment for me.  I hate to part with the gear, because it means no more babies, but at this point in our lives, another baby is just not going be in the cards for us.  There is a pregnancy center very close to where we live that helps women in crisis pregnancies, and they never have nearly enough baby items.  So I started a pile in the living room, and we are finally done moving, I am going to take all the baby items I don’t need anymore and donate all of it to them.  It feels like I am closing a chapter in my life, but I am happy that families who really need the items will have them, and  I have no doubt they will be going to good use.

As soon as we get moved in, I’ll post some pictures, of the organized rooms.  🙂  It is really coming together and the boys just love it so far.  If you don’t have any plans on Saturday and want to help us, you know my number.  🙂

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New Year’s Eve

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Ever since having kids, I have not been out on New Year’s Eve.  In fact, I was doing well if I could even stay up until midnight, to ring in the new year at home. 

My kids are growing up, so I guess I get to go out again for New Year’s, and I am really excited about it.  I’m going with my sister, brother, and their spouses, and some of their friends.  Joe is going to have a boy’s night in, with Ryan and Cole.  I told them tonight I was going to go out, and they were going to have a party with Dad- I told them they could have some hot chocolate, and they just thought that was the best thing ever.  🙂 It is cute how sweet and innocent they still are. 

We are going to have dinner at a delicious restaurant in Cherry Creek that my sister used to work at, and her best friend is the manager there now.  Then we are going to go to a nice drinking place (bar) and say good-bye to 2008.

I don’t usually make New Year’s Resolutions, but I do get in mind some goals I would like to accomplish for the upcoming year.  The big one, is to finally get all our junk worldly possessions moved to the new house, and get our place rented, so we can finally finish up with all this house stuff. 

I also wanted to lose some weight, but due to the stress of trying to move all our worldly possessions to the new house, I lost some. That is always nice, but I do want to start a regular schedule of doing some exercise a few times a week. 

One other big goal is to not let the house fill up with so much junk- really.  I don’t know how it gets so accumulated, but it is really freeing to throw away and donate so much of the stuff that has piled up; stuff we never use.  Moving is good for a few things- one of which is getting your life de-cluttered  🙂 

I’d love to hear any other resolutions or goals everyone has- I might even be able to add a new one to my list.

Whatever you are doing on New Year’s Eve, be safe and enjoy.

Happy New Year!

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No Rest for the Weary

With Christmas over, that nagging feeling hits me every year.  The feeling that I have forgotten something- that something always being Ryan’s birthday.  He was born the first week of January, and with the holidays, I always fall behind on his party.

Back in June, I thought of this, and planned.  In years past, I have never seemed to plan his birthday far ahead enough in advance, and then all the fun places are booked.    My ‘baby’ is turning five this year, and he has been excited forever for his birthday.  I actually booked the venue in June, and that was too early to do all the other planning, so I have put it off-again.  There is always so much going on with the holidays, it just naturally falls to the back burner. 

So this week we will be trying to move, work, and finish the preparations for Ryan’s big day, which is next Sunday.  Fortunately, I have all the party favors, and just have to find some time to assemble them.  I would love to make his cake, and some of the other food, but I’m not crazy. There is just no way I can manage that with everything else going on.

If my blog posts taper off, you know I am up to my neck in boxes, and party favors.  🙂  I hope everyone had a great Christmas, and here are some pictures from ours:

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