Thank you all for the e-mails and comments youyou have sent me. Many of my readers asked me to keep them updated, so here is what I found out today from my surgeon.
The surgery is the worst case scenario. The two lymph nodes that are of major concern, are right below my ears. This means the surgeon is going to have to make a U shaped incision that runs under my ear, to my neck to the other ear. He will then have to work his way up- he said lymph nodes are like a ladder- one layer had to be removed before he can get to the next layer. He said he is going to have to dissect my neck. He said there are 80 nodes in this area, and he is going to try to get them all out, as he works his way up to get the ones with the known cancer. Every one they can get out, reduces the chance of a reoccurrence. He said lymph nodes should be under 1 cm. The two that are of concern are measuring 2.7 cm., and 3.5 cm. He said they could do a biopsy to make sure they are cancerous, but he said in his best professional opinion, he has never seen a case where the nodes are enlarged like this, and it wasn’t cancer.
I would think more seriously about a biopsy, but my thyroglobulin in my blood should be at 0, and it is at 37. He said he was very surprised it was this high. He said that all but confirms the enlarged nodes are cancer, and it is now showing up in my blood work. Dr. said it is more than likely that cancer is in my other lymph nodes in my body. But until they grow large enough, they are hard to detect. Six weeks after the surgery, I will have the radioactive iodine therapy that will kill off any cancer cells in any other lymph nodes. This is an effective treatment- it is a one time thing, I don’t lose hair or get sick. It does not look like I will need chemotherapy.
Because there is so much tissue, nerves, fat, and other vital parts in the neck, they have to work very slowly and meticulously in order to preserve as much of these as possible. It is a possibility I will lose my voice-for good- he said about 4% of people do. The vocal cords are right behind the thyroid and there are lymph nodes there.
Dr. said this is a brutal surgery. They have to cut away so much tissue and nerves to get to the lymph nodes, it is complex, slow, and there are other risks involved.
One thing he told me I am going to have to sacrifice is nerve endings in my neck. After the surgery, I will be numb from my earlobes to my collarbone- permanently. He said there is no way around this. Because I will be numb, I won’t feel the pain in my neck, but he said because all those nerves and tissues are connected, I will feel the pain in my shoulders.
He said the pain in my shoulders will be excruciating. He said he could not stress this enough for me, so I can be prepared. I am going to be in rehab for my shoulders 48 hours after the surgery. The surgery is going to be at least 10 hours. I will be in the hospital for up to 7 days. The recovery time after this is about 2 weeks.
I asked Dr. if I was going to die, and he said no. I told him I have my two boys, and he said I will be around for a long time for them. Learning all this was very shocking, and I started crying. Dr. gave me a hug and told me he knows how hard this is. His wife had thyroid cancer 2 years ago and he operated on her. He said their family went through the same thing, but my chances for a full recovery are very good.
I feel confident with the doctor- he is the leading surgeon for these types of cases in Northern Colorado. He’s been in practice for 16 years. He is on top of the current research and alternatives, because of his wife having the same thing. I feel he understands the emotional aspect of this for me as well. I told him I trusted him with this- to do what he needs to do, to make sure I am around for my boys. I am thinking about obtaining a second opinion, just to make sure I am covering all my options (thanks Mel).
This is shaping up to be one of the hardest things I have faced. I feel I have the information and the facts now to face it head-on. If you believe in a higher spiritual force, like God 🙂 please pray for me. If not, please send me positive and healing thoughts. I will need them.
I thank all of you- my friends (even if I have never met you in real life- 🙂 ) and family for all the support and love you have shown me. I feel it, and it is what will get me through this.
18 replies on “What I Found Out About Thyroid Cancer Surgery”
My thoughts are with you and your family. This sounds so incredibly challenging, and while it’s awesome that any cancer should be removed by the surgery and you will recover fully from it, it’s still harrowing to think of the difficulties coming up in relation to the surgery.
However, it sounds like your doctor is just the right guy for the job. It’s amazing that he operated on his own wife — that’s a strong man.
This sounds so cheesy, but you are so incredibly brave. You may not feel like it right now, but you ARE. I am so sorry that you have to go through this, but man, what an incredible example of strength you will show your precious boys!
I am sending all my love and prayers and every good vibe I can find in my body…know that they won’t stop! We are all on board.
xoxox.
I read your story and immediately started to cry. I don’t know you, but I am so proud of you. You will beat this and be o.k. for your boys. I’m sending you positive thoughts and will be thinking of you. You are so strong!!!!
Oh my…. I am in tears and heartbroken for you just reading about all this!!!
I would like to know if you have a time frame you have to have this surgery done by??
I ask as I just finished reading a book, called Be your own Doctor, by Ann Wigmore… and it documents MANY cases of different tyes of cancer, being treated and eliminated by a drastic change in diet…..
Just throwing it out there.. as this surgery indeed sounds so brutal as you said…
Blessings and prayers of healing and comfort your way hun.
Heather, I’m a new visitor to your blog and have just read several of your posts. My heart sincerely goes out to you for what you are going through between your divorce and now your cancer. While right now might seem like the darkest days of your life, just know there is a light at the end of the tunnel, and if you can picture your beautiful boys there when you are at your lowest, that will definitely pull you through. But, I’m not telling you anything you don’t already know – you are one strong woman, I can tell!
My husband is a cancer survivor and this past year and a half since his diagnosis have definitely been rough. But, we are finally making our way out of the weeds and it is amazing what this journey has taught us!
There is a new life waiting for you when this is all over. I can’t wait to hear all about it!
God Bless!
Oh, my. What a day you had. This is overwhelming. Just continue to FEEL and don’t forget about directing that anger where it belongs. Who will come help you with your boys? Will your soon to be ex be able to do that, or your Mom? How will you handle things? Take care.
When I was 38 I was diagnosed with breast cancer and was convinced I was going to die. My kids were 17 months and 5. They’re now 4 and 8 and I’m still here. It may seem impossible but you can pull through it. Just don’t be afraid to let other people know when you need help.
Best wishes and let me know if you need anything. Kate
Thank you for the update, Heather. I’m sorry to hear that the surgery is such a rough one. I am very glad to hear that your prognosis is so good in the long run. The treatment of cancer has come so far in the last several decades. It sounds like your doc is a good one if he ends up being your pick. You want a highly skilled surgeon who knows what he’s doing first and foremost, but the empathy sure is a wonderful bonus. I’m so glad that it sounds like you’re surrounded by good friends and family to help and support you during this difficult time.
I’ve been thinking about you since you first shared you were diagnosed, and I certainly will be during your surgery and recovery.
My very best wishes for the smoothest possible surgery, for steady, solid healing, and for strength through this process. Michael
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I’m glad Heather is going with with advice of cancer specialists whose training and skills are based on reams of peer reviewed research. The “radical diet” book stuff may be helpful as an adjunct, but it is certainly no replacement for well researched cancer treatment. I wouldn’t ask a friend or loved one to bet their life on anecdotes. The authors of such books certainly aren’t held accountable for the results when those with cancer substitute their advice for treatment.
This is a very hard thing one which I cannot imagine. It sounds as if your doc has all the right ingredients for you…he has personal knowledge as well as professional knowledge of this type of cancer. He is also being very honest about everything. I am praying.
Absolutely my prayers go out to you. I am truly stunned both by the doctor’s honesty and the amazing medicine behind it. Of course I am similarly shocked at the truth of it all. Best of luck during this whole process.
Hi its me again…. I was worried you or others might thinnk I was being crazy about said “radical diet books…”… and I too would NEVER just up and do something so drastic without researching to my utmost abilities… I found the link to the book I was specifically thinking of. I just finished reading it a few weeks ago and it had several documented cases of cancer survivors… which is the only reason I even brought it up…. You and your family are in my prayers no matter what and I hope that this was taken by you in the manner I was trying to pass it on… I dont care what anyone else thinks about it. =)
Here is the link:
https://stanford.wellsphere.com/complementary-alternative-medicine-article/free-online-dr-ann-wigmore-s-raw-living-foods-ebook-why-suffer-how-i-overcame-illness-pain-naturally/559658
Thank you so much for sharing this incredible, challenging, emotional experience… it is so easy to read stats or case studies and not really understand what they all mean. Your experience shows us that surgery and health issues directly impact every aspect of our lives, great and small. I’m so inspired by the fact that your surgeon has provided so much honest information for you. Peace and blessings to you and your boys, Heather!
Thank you for the sharing…
Oh, man. I’m so sorry about your diagnosis and the upcoming treatments. My mom had thyroid cancer and the surgery and iodine, etc, and she’s still in the midst of getting her thyroid medication adjusted. It’s been…urgh…a rough haul, but not a life-threatening one, and that’s the important thing. But, still, I feel your discouragement, and I hope and pray your treatment and recovery go as smoothly as possible.
As far as alternative therapies, let us know if you try anything and it works, because I could pass it on! 🙂
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Hey there,
I just stumbled onto your blog. I am also newly diagnosed with thyroid cancer and I am looking for other moms going through the same thing to talk to. I have two sons aged 4 months and 2 years. Please email me if you are interested in talking!
Best of luck,
Kate
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