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Motherhood in a Picture

 This picture is of Ryan, Cole, and myself, about 14 hours after Cole was born.  It was the first time Ryan met and held his new brother.  This picture represents the essence of motherhood for me.  I not only had a brand new life, but also my firstborn, and two brothers before me, who are my sole responsibility.  I am still in amazement that I have been entrusted with these two precious little lives, and looking at this picture reminds me what a miraculous experience motherhood is. 

I am participating in 5 Minutes For Mom’s Giveaway with this photo, on what motherhood means for me. 

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Cole Mothering Parenting Ryan

The Princess & The Baby

The past few days, Ryan has started telling me I am his princess.  He’ll give me a hug and say, “You are my princess, Mommy.”  Tell me that wouldn’t melt your heart. 

Tonight as I was tucking him in, he told me that again, so I asked him what he wanted me to call him.  He said, “You can call me “Prince.”  So I gave him a hug and said, “Goodnight, prince.”  He got a huge smile, and then said, “Okay, you go away now Mom- I need to go to sleep.”  I guess the fair princess has been banished out of the prince’s room.  🙂

Cole is starting to talk up a storm.  Yesterday he started saying his name, very clear- at least Joe and I think it is clear.  Before this, when we would ask him his name, he would always say, “Me.”  He calls Ryan, “Eye-in,”  which is pretty good for an almost two year old. 

Cole’s latest dramatic antic when he wants something-anything, to pucker his face up, start whining, and cry, “Baby, Baby,”  while pointing to himself.  The boy is good- it gets my heartstrings every time (and Joe’s), but he still is my baby, and I guess he knows it, and is working it to his advantage.  At least  I haven’t been banished by him-at least not yet. 

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Fun Stuff Make Me Laugh Monday

Make Me Laugh Monday- World’s Sexiest Bird

 

 

 

To read a hilarious post about Oscar, check out Michael’s comments about Oscar at d-listed.

Happy Laughing!

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Fun Stuff Little Pumpkin Sweet Pea Designs

The Winner Is… (and more Giveaways)

Thank you to everyone who entered my first ever Bloggy Giveaway.  I loved reading about your families, and all the aunties your families have. I wish I could give everyone a onesie, but since there can only be one winner, I am very happy to announce the winner (as determined by random.org) of the I Love My Aunties onesie is:

LAURA from https://www.oraeley.com/.  Laura said she has five sisters, and her second baby is due soon at the end of May.  Congratulations to Laura, and I’ll be contacting you soon via e-mail.

If you just have to have your own I Love My Aunties onesie, it is available in my on-line store, Little Pumpkin Sweet Pea Designs.   It also comes in pink, and blue. 

Thanks again to everyone for visiting my blog, and please come back and visit again.  I have a very exciting giveaway planned for May- I know you want a hint…it is a fabulous product from an organic skin care company.  Keep checking back for more details.  🙂

Another giveaway that is running right now is the Earth-Mother’s Day Giveaway at Crunchy Domestic Goddess. This is a terrific giveaway and you can win all of the following:

  • 1 Mission Playground woman’s organic t-shirt
  • 1 pair of Oceano earrings
  • 1 set of three BYO Bags
  • 1 32 oz. bottle of Lily’s Garden Herbals all purpose clean
  • 1 Wrap-n-Mat
  • 1 Tree in a Box
  • Make sure you head over there, for all the details and your chance to win. 

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    Health Mothering Ryan

    What’s In Your Skin Care Products?

    A few days ago, I wrote about Ryan having keratosis pilaris (KP).  One of the solutions that has helped Ryan, which I didn’t go into a lot of detail on, was our switch to natural skin care products.

    As I wrote, this has been such a change and learning experience for me.  Growing up with 3 other siblings, money was tight, and my mom bought the least expensive skin care products she could.  This usually meant the typical products you would find at any drug or grocery store. 

    I am a beauty product junkie I’ll admit it.  So I love trying out new shampoos, conditioners, make-up, lotion, and skin care products.  Over the years I have gravitated towards more natural brands.  I have very, very, dry and somewhat sensitive skin, and these products just work on my skin better. 

    I don’t know why I didn’t connect the dots, -if I was getting better results with natural products, then they were probably better for my baby, when Ryan was born.  Like a lot of new mothers, I stocked up on Johnson & Johnson baby products.  I also had received a Burt’s Bee Baby Starter Kit.  I noticed right away after using J&J lotion on Ryan, his skin seemed very rough and dry.  After using the Burt’s Bee lotion, his skin was softer and never felt dry.

    I noticed this with all the skin care products we used on Ryan.  The “traditional” products were always drying and somewhat irritating, where the more natural ones were not.  I tried out a lot of lotions to try to keep Ryan’s skin hydrated, to reduce his KP flare-ups. 

    About two years ago, I came across this eye-opening, and educational website, Skin Deep, which is a cosmetic and personal skin care data base.  It breaks down the ingredients in thousands and thousands of products, and lets you know which ones are the most dangerous based on ingredients in the products that are linked to cancer, developmental/reproduction toxicity, violations, restrictions, and warnings, and other issues like skin irritation.   The most dangerous ones are a 10, down to 0 (with minimal hazards).   It will tell you too, if the company tests its product on animals and if they have signed the Compact for Safe Cosmetic pact. 

    I was SHOCKED and quite honestly, appalled to see the rankings of some of the products I was using on Ryan at the time.  Johnson & Johnson’s Baby Lotion had a hazard of ranking of 7.  In fact, 95% of baby lotions on the market have lower concerns.  It is one of the most hazardous baby lotions, and how many millions of people are using it on their babies?  No wonder Ryan’s skin always seemed stressed after using it. 

     I started to feel deceived by these baby companies, because so many of the products that sound natural, and sound good, like something you would want on your baby’s skin, is anything but.  Like Huggies Baby Lotion with Shea Butter– sounds good but it also has a ranking of 7, which is a high hazard.  The Burt’s Bee’s Baby Buttermilk Lotion has a ranking of 4, which put it in the moderate hazard category.  I had to conclude that the lower the ranking on the products we were using, were not only better for my son’s skin, but also better for his potential health.  What mother would want to knowingly expose her baby to potential toxins?

    I was also surprised to find some products I thought would be high on the list actually weren’t.  An example was Vaseline 100% Petroleum Jelly.  Its ranking is 0, which is considered a low hazard.  Another one was Johnson & Johnson Baby Oil. I thought it would be at least a 7 or 8, but it is a 3, with a moderate hazard.  There are some baby oil’s that ranked at 0’s though, so baby oil wasn’t as bad as I had thought.

    All of this taught me that I have to read ingredients on skin care products.  I can’t just assume because a company claims the product is “natural” or because it says “baby” on it, it is safe and non-toxic to use on my children.  I feel like my kids will be exposed to so many toxins in life anyway that I can’t control, but I want to cut down on the amount they are exposed to at home by using less toxic products in their bath, and on their skin.

    Of course for Ryan this also means his KP doesn’t flare-up as much, and that is reason enough for me to have made the switch to less toxic skin care products for our family.